If you decided to try out dating with a ladyboy then you would definitely hear about numerous successful love stories between them and men from the Western world. However, an online search for a date as any kind of dating has its own benefits and drawbacks. That’s why along with the guys who were lucky enough to meet their true love there will be always those who had to deal with some sort of fraud or so-called scam. Unfortunately for somebody, it can cost their savings or, moreover, their broken heart. Under the best scenario, you just will waste your time. Therefore it begs the question: how to protect yourself from emotional manipulation and how not to fall in such situation?
Ladyboy scammer: who are they?
First of all, we don’t generalize them – certainly most of ladyboys are decent ladies who want to find a lifetime partner and for whom real feelings are important. Just the fact is that ladyboys mostly come from South-eastern Asian countries with a low economy, therefor you need to be aware that for sure there will be some amount of girls who want to make money.
It should be noted that significant part of scammers accounted for the Philippines. People there speak English pretty well, at least better than in other Asian countries, and it’s easy for them to communicate with foreigners.
Another fact, the average salary in this country is about 200$, and you should work hard to earn it. Due to this reason ladyboys try to find some easy money forgetting about any morals. Some of them just have no choice – it’s their only chance to survive. At least, the perspective of being prostitute doesn’t appeal to everyone.
How to recognize?
Imagine such a situation: you meet a ladyboy online, chat for some time, then some chemistry occurs between you and her, and at some point she asks you to send money under any pretext. And these pretexts can be completely different: she needs to pay for internet, electricity or other bills, or maybe she needs a new laptop so she could continue to communicate with you; she needs to help her parents or other relatives; she needs money for expensive medications or medical treatment. Or suddenly it happens to her birthday, but she has no money to celebrate it. And you can’t refuse her, right? Especially if you’re full of hope for a future meeting in reality and maybe something serious will happen between the two of you.
Eventually that list of needs might be endless and in the most cases their
cost usually is much higher than in reality. And you never know if she spends
those money as it supposed to be or for something else, or maybe she has other
guys who also “help her” at the same time.
Well, the circumstances can be folded in different ways. Perhaps that girl actually needs your help. Just be careful when the conversation comes to money. At a certain point it’s easy to guess that you’re dealing with a scammer because mostly they talk only about one thing – their needs.
Most ladyboys looking for relationship
Again, not all ladyboys are scammers, and there is no reason to suspect every girl that you meet online. Of course, they are interested to meet a foreign man who will provide them more financially secured future. But this’s just a normal practice no matter is that woman transgender or not. Anyway financial aspect is far away to be the only reason why Asian ladyboys choose foreign men. Most of them have serious intentions and want to find a decent man to create a family with.